Altered State
Imagination & Romance
Weaving Reality with Desire
Key Concepts
Fantasy
The playground of the mind where we explore desires safely.
Idealization
Seeing the divine perfection in a partner (the "halo effect").
Kundalini
The latent spiritual energy believed to lie at the base of the spine, awakened by this combination.
Archetypes
Enacting universal roles (Lover, Warrior, Queen) in relationship.
Cultivating the Mythic
Direct experience is the only way to understand an altered state. Here are ways to explore imagination & romance safely.
The Benefits
Re-enchantment
Keeping the mystery and magic alive in long-term partnership.
Creativity
Sexual and romantic energy fuels artistic output.
Self-Knowledge
Our fantasies reveal our deepest needs and shadows.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is idealization healthy?
In moderation, yes. It helps bond couples. It becomes toxic only if it blinds you to red flags.
Q: Why is imagination important for sex?
The brain is the biggest sex organ. Arousal starts in the mind.